I have two younger sisters, twins in fact, who are seniors in high school this year. Therefore they believe that everything is about them right now, and they are the two coolest people alive on the face of the Earth. In short, they are rather annoying, yet I love them. When I think about what I value the most in my life, it’s the relationships I have with people. And what exactly do those relationships mean to me? That’s easy. Everything. Who I am today, every little part of my personality was formed by the people in my life, whether it be my family or my friends or a random friend from summer camp. And while I won't go into depth about these two relationships, two of the most defining relationships in my life are the one I have with myself, and the relationship I have with God. These are, and always will be important to me, but there are few other relationships I want to talk about. The relationships in my life have made me the person I am, and continue to form the person I am constantly evolving to be.
I AM my father’s daughter. From the horrible fall allergies to my faith to my sometime stubborn attitude I am just like my dad. My dad is my best friend. My mom is much more like my sisters (including the fact that they are all twins), but one important trait I picked up from my mom is my love and football AND Jim Tressel (don’t worry about it). Like I said my sister’s are twins, and younger; being the oldest sibling has definitely defined me! Not only did it allow me to boss them around when I wanted to, but also it made me super protective of them. My junior and senior years of high school my dad was living out of town most of time for work and my mom worked a ton, so I played parent for 2 years: driving them around, making them dinner, keeping everyone’s schedule. Having this relationship with my sisters has definitely defined a big part of our relationship and my personality. As far as extended family goes, I am very lucky to be close with members of both sides of my family. And being the oldest cousin on both sides of my family, being a constant role model or guinea pig (depending on the situation) has also defined my relationships. My relationships with my family members provide me with the constant of my life. No matter what, I know they will be there to help me, support me, save me, and cheer me on! I value my family more than anything, and that is TRULY amazing to me and that’s why my relationship with my family is one of my core values.
Now, as much as I LOVE blogging, I could never blog about the amazing friends I have had throughout my life. I could write a novel about my friends, but I will try to point out some exceptional friend memories that show why they are so important to me.
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Alice, Kara and me at our high school graduation |
1. My two best friends from grade school: Alice and Kara. We did everything together, and wasted a lot of summers aimlessly riding our bikes around, sitting at the pool, and watching movies. Alice, Kara and I still hang out every time the three of us are home, and to this day they still bring me back to a time when life was simple, and we didn’t have a care in the world.

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2. I loved high school, but I did not like the four years I was in high school. I spent freshman year thinking we were moving to Florida (and I am from Cincinnati), sophomore year was just a dud, and junior and senior year I spent without my real best friend, my dad. Lots of other things were going on, but at the end of the day I had a lot of amazing friends who got me through some awful experiences. Some of the people that meant the world to me merely 3 or 4 years ago are no longer in my life. Some of those relationships did not end the way I wanted them to, but like I said every relationship I have had, has made me exactly who I am at this moment. And I wouldn’t change that for the world. On the other hand, some of those friends I am still very close with today. Actually, one of those friends is in our Greek Leadership Class, so thanks Ashley!
3. Some of the most important relationships in my life have been with my guy friends. Without Chris, Bucky, or Craig (and a few other names I won’t call out) I think I would be a very different person. Having grown up with all girls, attending an all-girls high school, and now being in a sorority I am ALWAYS around women. The guys that I have become good friends with over the different periods of my life have mad a huge impact on me and I am eternally grateful for them.
4. The friends I have at Ohio State (both Greek and non-Greek) have created a second home for me. My friends at Ohio State are the reason I love being in Columbus, they are the reason there are no bad days at Ohio State! And I can’t imagine all the more memories I’ll make with the friends I have already met or the friends I have yet to make at OSU!
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My Pledge Class on Bid Day 2010 |
5. And my DZ sisters…. Well we are sisters.
Long story, short: my friends are awesome. And they mean the world to me! They show me the kind of person I want to be and keep me in line. I would do ANYTHING for any of my friends, and I know my best friends would always do the same for me. That is why my relationships with my friends are part of my core values.
Now, if you know me AT ALL, you are sitting there reading this being like ‘whoa! How could you forget the most important person in your life?!’. Well don’t worry, I just believe in saving the best for last.
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Scott and me, at his wedding this past summer |
The most important, or at least the most defining, relationship I have, is the one I have with my cousin Scott. He is not only my 1st cousin once removed (that makes him my mom’s little cousin) he is my best friend in the whole world. Even though he is a 35-year-old lawyer living in Chicago with his new wife, and I am a 19-year-old college student in Columbus, we are inseparable and for the past 7 years have been e-mailing each other every day. We talk about everything and anything and nothing. Without Scott I truly have no clue who I would be, he is my role model. Scott is the perfect example of why the relationships of my life are my core value!
Every morning I wake up, and I begin my day by calling my parents. I walk around campus either running into countless of my friends everywhere or on the phone with my friends or family from home. No matter what else is going on in the world, these interactions and relationships keep me grounded, and make me happy.
“The quality of your life is the quality of your relationships.”
Anthony Robbins